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STRAWBERRY LETTER - 24 AND READY TO SETTLE BUT AM I IN WAY OVER MY HEAD?!

 
STRAWBERRY LETTER - 24 AND READY TO SETTLE BUT AM I IN WAY OVER MY HEAD?!

Good morning Steve and Shirley, I am a 24 year old woman who has a lot going for myself. I am a Junior Scheduler for a nursing facility and I help run the company. I am the youngest female and the only African-American, so I feel very accomplished. I also model as well. Anyway, my dating life has not been so good. Every dude I feel may be a reliable candidate, always ends up turning into a nightmare. Recently, I met a young man who is 5 years younger than me and we have been dating for 3 months. We are from the same area, but he is off to school and we are two hours apart. He is an athlete. I know what I want already and I sometimes hammer him about making sure he feels the same way. Recently, I visited him and he introduced me to a female friend and in his introduction of me, I did not have a title. I have read your book, "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man," and you say 3 P's of love from a man is Profess, Provide, Protect. I feel that by him not professing his love to me, by not introducing me as his girlfriend, made me doubt our relationship. He's introduced me to his brother and friends as his girlfriend, but that just didn't sit well with me. I am ready to settle down and get married. He asked me, but to me, nothing is official until there is a ring involved. I don't want to rush things because I want to make sure it's all legit. When I get married, that's that, I don't believe in divorce, How can I approach him about how I feel about him professing his love or proving to me he is serious? Or should I just let it go and move on? In the end I just want to be happy. Thank you.

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