Where do I begin? I was dating this guy for five years. I finally realized that it wasn't going anywhere, but instead of just ending it I decided to deal with someone else, who was also with someone. He claimed he was unhappy as well. I guess in some way we felt we were helping one another. After two months I ended up pregnant. Here's where it gets worse - he's related to one of my friends. My son is now five months old. We are constantly around his family but they don't know that my child is his. I was told that some of them think there is a possibility but no one has asked me. Up until two months ago on occasion we would still mess around, but I finally ended that. He wants a DNA test and I told him that he could have one but it still hasn't been done. He keeps asking me not to take him to court and that he will pay for it. If I need something he gives me the money for it. I think he's procrastinating on paying for the test because he doesn't want his girlfriend to find out. Do you think I should just pay for the test myself and tell his family the truth? I feel like I've already set my child up for failure bringing him into the world under these circumstances. I'm so confused. I'm so disappointed in myself. In some way I feel like I betrayed his family because I've known them for so long. I just want my child to know his family.
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