KELLY ROWLAND WANTS A SMALL WEDDING Kelly Rowland isn't interested in having a big lavish wedding. The singer -- who is engaged to boyfriend Tim Witherspoon, says she'd like an intimate wedding. She told People, "I think we just really want it to be us and our pastor. That's it. I mean, we are the only two that's going to be in the marriage." She continued,"You have to pay for food for everyone and I'm not down with that," she says with a laugh. "Everyone is there just to be nosy and see who I'm wearing, you know. I'm okay." Kelly and Tim have not set a wedding date as of yet.